For most people distractions are a way of life. We live in a world where people are competing for our attention all the time and most of us feel the urge to take action and respond to those distractions without thought for what we are sacrificing.
When I used to respond to a distraction, basically I was saying… this text message, phone call, skype message, email, person interrupting me is more important than what I’m currently doing, so I’d respond and get caught up in the unconscious conditioning of my past.
Every time you allow something to distract you while you are doing something important, it takes a good 5 minutes or longer to get back into the flow of writing that blog post, recording the video, creating your information product, or completing your focused work. If you get distracted multiple times while you are trying to focus, you end up with a LOT of wasted time and a poorly finished product.
There are many ways we get distracted while working either using the Internet, or in our daily work place. I’ve picked out 5 of the biggest distractions so you can see how often they come up in your life and work time.
5 Major Distractions & How To Eliminate Them
1. Skype & Instant Messenger
I used to have Skype turned on all the time while I was working because I thought I was being clever. If it’s on, then people can contact me when they want to and I will be the little puppet waiting to reply. It didn’t matter what else I was doing, I was at their call 24 hours per day.
After realising that distractions were driving me mad and I wasn’t able to achieve anything during my days and weeks, Skype was one of the first things to get shut down!
So now I schedule my Skype activities for a certain time each day/week and most of my friends & colleagues know exactly what time they can reach me on Skype. Usually it’s 4pm GMT time, although it can vary depending on what else I have going on.
At the designated time I open up Skype when I want to be contacted and people respect my time because of it. I no longer get distracted by the “John Smith has just come online” notifications or the “Hello Gavin how are you today” type messages anymore.
I have Skype open for roughly 1 hour and then close it again. During that time I process all Skype messages which people have already left while it was closed and I work on low leverage activities, things I can do while replying to Skype messages. Work that doesn’t require a lot of focused attention like processing my email or paperwork, using Facebook or my social media activity or processing a video.
If for any reason you don’t want to totally turn off Skype, then use the status button and make yourself either busy or invisible. (Just remember to change the status back later when you want people to contact you
2. Constant Email Checking & Watching
There’s actually a fantastic book by Julie Morgernstern called ‘Never Check Your E-Mail In The Morning‘ and it’s so true! If I check my email first thing after waking up, I end up getting sidetracked and wasting time looking at pointless emails.
You may also be in the habit of checking emails every few hours, or even WORSE, keeping your email inbox open ALL the time! It’s just like a habit, an addiction… I used to do it all the time. I’d be working on something important and a few minutes later I’d find myself in my email inbox wading through useless information and checking if I’d had any emails so I could feel important and reply to them!
Most of us do this without thinking about it.
So, if you want to get anything meaningful done each day, schedule your email checking and replying for SPECIFIC times during the day. You’ll find my full article & videos on how to manage email overwhelm here.
Also, if you are using Microsoft Outlook, or similar, turn off the annoying pop up message or ‘ding’ noise which notifies you when you have a new message. It’s another huge distraction.
Check out for part 2 on the 5 Major Distractions & How To Eliminate Them which is now available, and if you’d like to get deeper into how and why to eliminate distractions and some of the more in depth strategies I use to manage my time, be sure to check out my 90 minute Double Your Business Productivity webinar.
Your Friend,
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Leave A Reply (23 comments so far)
Matthew Neer
870 days ago
Hey there Gavin,
The blog is lookin sexy man. LOVE the new header!
I can’t wait for part 2 man, I’ll talk to ya soon!
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Gavin Mountford
869 days ago
Thanks Matthew, hope you are well also! Sounds like you’ve been busy putting the clickbank product together! Great work, I’ll check it out as soon as I can.
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Val Wilcox
869 days ago
Gavin,
Glyna did a post about your webinar a bit ago. Thanks for sharing the total content here. I’ve been waiting for this!
Thanks Gavin,
Val
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Angela
869 days ago
I have to agree with you on this post. It is great how you can connect with people so easily on skype but I found myself not being as productive when I have it up. Good suggestion to only get on for a hour and then close it again. Thanks for the great post!
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James
869 days ago
Hi Gavin
I couldn’t agree more with you – Skype and email are by far the biggest daily distractions.
I think people struggle with the expectation of having to reply quickly to emails all the time. Skype is easier to turn off unless you’re part of a team and are expected to be seen to be ‘online and working’…
To be honest I’ve struggled to time block these distractions consistently in the past, so thanks for the reminder
Cheers
James
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Willena Flewelling
869 days ago
I’m pretty good at organizing a lot of things… in theory at least. NOT so great at managing my time! What you’ve written so far is a very good start for me. I’m looking forward to the rest of it!
Willena Flewelling
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The GREAT Edward
869 days ago
Hey Gavin,
Thanks so much for sharing this with us all.
I am fairly disciplined with skype and email is getting better.
Since your webinar, I cleared out my inbox and have eliminated a bunch of unwanted and needed email lists. I find once I start to use my email to follow-up and look into things, that is when I can get distracted and off track. One day and step at a time. I know it will get better. Looking forward to the next installment.
Make it a great day!
God Bless,
The GREAT Edward!
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Maggie Lancy
868 days ago
Great information Gavin.
Love your picture.
We get distracted in life in more ways than one and your information is truly helpful to prioritize your daily activity.
Thanks for sharing.
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Gavin Mountford
868 days ago
@Val, great to see you here! I hope you were able to get access to the webinar through the opt-in
I didn’t actually see Glyna’s post so I’ll take a look to see if I can find it.
@Angela – welcome to the blog again! 1 hour blocks for social media and Skype are definitely very powerful
@James, let me know how it goes for you. If you need any help with fixing your block time, or eliminating any distractions please get in touch with me through the 30 min consultation form.
@Willena – Time Management is a tricky subject for many people. I think it’s because many of us are impulsive and there are so many things for us to do. It’s a challenge for people to work out what is most important to them.
I’ll be talking a lot more about prioritization etc and choosing the right things to do in more detail in future posts.
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Gavin Mountford
868 days ago
@Edward – Sounds like you are doing great with your emails so far! I also wanted to say a big thank you for giving me ideas and thoughts about other things I can include in my productivity and time management trainings and posts. Email is a major issue for many people and it sucks away at the time
@Maggie, how are you? It’s been a while since we last spoke. Distraction is a major issue online as we’ve spoken about in detail many times before! I thought I’d change my direction for my personal blog and brand online to discuss these challenges.
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Lorie
867 days ago
Great article here Gavin. What I find is that, using gmail is a great way to sort out your emails because you can categorized very important emails from the less important or the spam. With regards to skype, I set up voice mailbox so if people want to contact me in skype, they can leave their message and I’ll return their call if I’m not busy doing my stuff.
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Jennifer Akers
866 days ago
Hi Gavin,
As always, you provide great ideas. I can’t tell you how happy I was to see your tip on closing Skype! I did the same thing (for time management to start and then because I needed time to set up a working headset), but I had plenty of people question why they couldn’t reach me outside of an appointment. Most of the time, it was notes like you mentioned, nice but very distracting.
I also group similar things at one time to get more done. The same for emails, though checking frequently can be a problem for me. I normally check first thing in the morning and try to limit myself the rest of the day if I find I’m checking every couple of hours.
It’s easy to get distracted and end up wondering where all the time went – good tips on eliminating them.
Best,
Jennifer
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Gavin Mountford
865 days ago
@Lorie, yes absolutely I use gmail also and have a full system in place to deal with everything that comes at me on a daily basis.
You may already have seem my 4 part getting emails under control series here:
http://www.gavinmountford.com/blog/help-im-drowning-in-a-flood-of-email-save-me/
@Jennifer – If emails are a challenge, check out the above link as I go into detail how I manage the many emails I get on a daily basis.
Sounds like you have email mostly under control.
I think it’s just being aware of the little things and gradually improving on a daily basis to become more productive with our online business.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts
Gavin
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Teach Jim
865 days ago
Productivity is huge. It really is the only way we have a chance of getting more none in less time. It is the only chance we have get time working for us.
Gavin you really hit this one right on. I think your suggestions are right on. Just a few little tweaks we not only find a few more minutes but we find greater confidence in controlling our lives.
Thank you Gavin. This as definitely helped me.
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Sherry Manison
864 days ago
Hi Gavin,
Your ideas make so much sense, but they are something I don’t often think of.
I currently don’t have too many Skype friends, but after trying to work one evening and getting an hour-long call from a friend (who lives about a mile away!), I realized I needed to do something. I had just seen your webinar “Double Your Online Productivity,” so the first thing I did after we hung up was to go invisible. No more interruptions!
Also, I now shut down email during my work time so I don’t even have the temptation to look!
Thanks for pointing these things out to us!
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Lori Robertson
864 days ago
Gavin,
I was laughing as I was reading this because I was a skype-a-holic so I keep mine on do not disturb until I am ready to ready to connect with people there. I also check my e-mails as soon as I get up so I am going to set a time later in the day to do that because it does take away from other things I need to get done.
Thanks for the pointers.
Lori
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Dave and Dawn Cook
864 days ago
Hi Gavin,
Your new niche of helping all of us with our daily productivity is very needed and much appreciated.
Dave and I loved your webinar and are slowly working to implement all your great suggestions. We have been doing quite well with keeping our inbox empty or at least much more manageable. It is harder when you have two people receiving messages in the same email account.
I appreciate your reminders here to schedule time to handle skype (and leave it off at other times) and email so we don’t let it control us. I’m bad about checking email too often so know I am getting very distracted. I will set two times per day to process it (not before 11 am) and take action on the emails that went to @action.
Keep giving us what we want.. great ways to become more productive. Though we’ll see how your new baby will impact your productivity…your precise schedule will be affected in a very quality way. But I’m sure you will handle it very nicely and maintain your productivity.
Dawn and (Dave)
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Gavin Mountford
849 days ago
@Teach Jim – hope you are well and I most definitely plan to continue this productivity trainings and blog posts. There are many people out there who struggle with this kind of thing and will definitely benefit from the information.
@Lori – Lol, yeah most people are Skype-O-Holics and keep it on all day. Plus check email every 10 minutes. As soon as you become aware of how much it takes your attention away from what you’re doing, you quickly increase your productivity.
@Dave/Dawn – I’m back at work this week (Internet Business) and because I work from home I am trying to separate personal from business. I’m working in chunks of time to focus on the tasks, get them done then spend time with Pippa and Lottie. I’m also taking 1 day off per week to spend with family.
I also plan my week with flexible routines so I know what I’m doing and can move the routines around when necessary.
Speak soon,
Gavin
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Gavin Mountford
849 days ago
@Sherry – Fantastic progress. Going invisible is a great way to keep distractions away on Skype, and closing your emails down until YOU decide to check them is also powerful. Check how many times you find yourself in your emails before the time you have set to check.
Sometimes we unconsciously just go into email without even knowing we are doing it
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Steve Shoemaker
757 days ago
Gavin,
I really love these post. I learn so much from your tips I really need to start scheduling things like skype and emails. I usually do what you were saying not to do bouncing between the emails, skype and my other projects its all about laser focus.
Steve
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Irene Pereira
733 days ago
Hey Gavin,
I have the same thoughts on the daily distractions. People must be in a similar situations as well. Your points on the way for eliminating distractions are very useful.
Nothing worst than some distractions be it Skype, email or something else when you are on into a fantastic blog or merely trying to get some work done that needs your immediate attention.
Thanks for sharing.
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