February 10, 2012

The Curiosity Approach – Friend Making Process

The Curiosity Approach – Friend Making Process

Before you start adding new friends on Facebook, you will need to target specific groups of people. Ideally Network Marketers. Watch the video below as I show you a great site to do your research on before you find new targeted friends on Facebook.

To start the whole Curiosity Approach, you'll need to be making new friends on Facebook and the social networks on a daily basis. Remember, fill your pipeline and people will join.

Your very first step, once you've got your Facebook profile all set up is to make 20 new friends on Facebook each day in order to qualify people to join your team.

There are millions of Network Marketers out there on Facebook, and you only need a small handful of people in your business, following the same system as you… to really make some serious money.

In order for you to move forward to step 1 – Invitation you need to making regular new friends.

Here is a video I recorded to show you how to make new targeted friends on Facebook.

Making Friends Process

  • Step 1. Make friends with 20 new people on Facebook per day. (Go to groups, search for network marketing, MLM, or company specific from http://www.mlmrankings.com and make friends with networkers in the groups)
  • Step 2. Send the person a friend request message and alternate messages every 5 times. Use Friend Request Messages below. (Make sure you add the person’s first name to each email and sign off with your first name.)
  • Step 3. Add the person to your Curiosity Approach list on Facebook so you know that you've contacted them.

Once you've completed the above 3 steps and made friends with 20 new people maximum per session, move on to Stage 0.1 – Starting the relationship, which we'll cover in the next training.

Making New Friends – Email Templates

Here are a couple of message templates to use when requesting new friends. When you add someone as a new friend, you have the ability to send them a quick email along with your friend request. I usually do this because it shows the new friend that you are a real person and that you are looking to network with them.

Sometimes if I see people I don't recognise and they don't send me an email along with their friend request, I don't accept them as a friend. At least if you've sent a message explaining you are also a networker…. they are more likely to accept you. (Please feel free to change these messages to suit your personality style)

Note – Make sure you add the persons first name and your first name to the message. Alternate between the two messages below, every 5 messages to ensure you don't get in trouble with Facebook.

Friend Request Message 1 – Pre Relationship


Hi <NAME>,

Great to meet you, I see you are involved with network marketing also…

I look forward to networking with you.

Thank You

<YOUR NAME>


Friend Request Message 2 – Pre Relationship - Alternate Friend Request Message (Make sure you alternate between message one and two every 5 requests to ensure Facebook doesn't stop you)


Hi <NAME>,

Great to meet you, I noticed you are involved in Network Marketing also.

I'd like to connect with you to learn more about you…

Thank You

<YOUR NAME>